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lettheoceantakemee:

The Amity AfflictionLet The Ocean Take Me

lettheoceantakemee:

The Amity Affliction
Let The Ocean Take Me

In Light Of The New 50 Shades of Grey Trailer

fuckyeahsexpositivity:

E.L. James knows as much about BDSM as she would have found in a five minute Google search, which is to say that she knows precisely jack shit.

50 Shades of Grey does not depict a realistic kinky relationship, nor does it depict a healthy relationship of either the kinky or vanilla variety.

It is a Twilight fanfic, and has all the elements of Edward and Bella’s abusive relationship with kink added for extra flavor. Just as Edward and Bella are not a healthy or realistic couple, neither are Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele.

Christian Grey is an abuser who manipulates a young woman with zero knowledge of BDSM into a relationship with him. He knows she is ignorant of what a healthy BDSM relationship looks like, and uses this to:

  • ignore and override her attempts at negotiation,
  • play without a safeword (since she doesn’t know that they exist),
  • create a false dichotomy of “either we’re kinky my way or we just don’t have sex at all,”
  • threaten and stalk her,
  • rape her,
  • prevent her from discussing her relationship with anyone other than him,
  • and control aspects of her personal life, including what car she drives, what medications she takes, and how she spends her free time.

This is not BDSM. This is not sexy. This is abuse.

Using 50 Shades as your basis for how a kinky relationship works (for critical or practical purposes) is like treating Titanic: The Legend Goes On as a historical documentary. Don’t do it.

—BB

You wouldn’t diagnose yourself with cancer.

demonic-lionfish:

orochimarukin:

demonic-lionfish:

Don’t diagnose yourself with a mental illness.

This is ignorAnt. Yes you can self diagnose cancer. In fact, I am actually a self diagnosed cancer patient. So please get your facts right.

betcha took your ass to a doctor after you noticed it to get it verified and that’s what i’m talking about here get your basic ass out the door friend

PS if you didn’t I’m ashamed of you for you

riotsiren:

Next older person to complain about millennials has to pay off a random 20-something’s student loans

shinycroissants:

“I remember when I was doing “Rent” and I was too thin, and I was doing that on purpose because I’m dying, I’m a HIV+ drug addict. I remember having to eat raw food and doing all this work to make sure I could stay thin… And I remember everyone asking me when I was doing press for the movie, “what did you do to get so thin? You looked great!” and I’m like, “I looked emaciated.” It’s a form of violence in the way that we look at women and how we expect them to look and be, for… what’s sake? No…

shinycroissants:

“I remember when I was doing “Rent” and I was too thin, and I was doing that on purpose because I’m dying, I’m a HIV+ drug addict. I remember having to eat raw food and doing all this work to make sure I could stay thin… And I remember everyone asking me when I was doing press for the movie, “what did you do to get so thin? You looked great!” and I’m like, “I looked emaciated.” It’s a form of violence in the way that we look at women and how we expect them to look and be, for… what’s sake? No…

donniedarkwad:

THIS IS HONESTLY ONE OF MY MOST FAVOURITE PHOTOS I LOVE RAIN SO MUCH AND STORMS AND WOW YES PLEASE

donniedarkwad:

THIS IS HONESTLY ONE OF MY MOST FAVOURITE PHOTOS I LOVE RAIN SO MUCH AND STORMS AND WOW YES PLEASE


"They need someone to say, “Hey, here’s all this crap in the world, there are good things to hold on to. There are good things to reach out for and there are things to remember and to hold on to, not just school, and get by, and go to college… There’s more to life than that.”“ - Austin Carlile 

"They need someone to say, “Hey, here’s all this crap in the world, there are good things to hold on to. There are good things to reach out for and there are things to remember and to hold on to, not just school, and get by, and go to college… There’s more to life than that.”“ - Austin Carlile